Does your child eat very slowly?
Are you tired of spending hours and hours feeding them every day? Then you need this magical 3C formula to make your child eat fast The 1st C is CONTROL Your child will eat fast when they feel hungry. They will feel hungry when they feel powerful and happy They will feel powerful and happy when you let them eat on their own. Because that will put them in control. Are you worried that your child will eat less and not get all the nutrients if they eat on their own? Donât worry â Just make finger foods / snacks with healthy ingredients that are rich in nutrients. The 2nd C is CURIOSITY Children are curious. They want to explore all the time. That is why they hate to sit in one place and eat. When they are forced to sit and eat â they get into a bad mood and stop feeling hungry When they are not hungry, they take a long time to eat. Do this. Make food in various colors using spinach, carrot, beetroot and so on. Cut cutlets rotis idlis and pancakes with cookie cutters to get various shapes The 3rd C is CRUNCH Crunchy foods make children hungry. That is why they eat big packets of crunchy junk food without any problem. When we feed them meals at home, we mash the food so much that it has no texture and definitely no crunch. Do this. Stop mashing food. Also add a crunch by coating cutlets with breadcrumbs. Type 3C and start following this. FREE yourself and your child from hours and hours of feeding every day. Share this with a struggling mom now. Follow me for more.
Do you wonder why your child does not perform even though they know everything?
Many parents often tell me - She is very good at dancing â but she never dances. He knows everything â but he gets nervous and does not answer in the exams. And so on. These children donât lack skills They are not able to perform because of the lack of CONFIDENCE. So, it is important to remember this while parenting. Teaching your child how to do something will not make them SUCCESSFUL They will SUCCEED if they are CONFIDENT. And their CONFIDENCE depends on â how much you SCOLD them. How much you scold them â depends on what you EXPECT from them What you expect from them â depends on what you KNOW about their growing brain and body. Every time you scold your child for not doing what you expect â they feel that they are BAD â because they have made you sad and angry. This lowers their confidence and they cannot perform even though they know everything. What is the solution? LEARN ABOUT THE GROWING BRAIN AND BODY so that you have the RIGHT EXPECTATIONS. Start PARENTING with NEUROSCIENCE. Don't let your lack of knowledge affect your childâs future Type PB if you want to subscribe to my PARENTING with NEUROSCIENCE course and I will send you the details on DM. #parenting #confidence #scolding
DONâT MAKE YOUR CHILD PERFECT.
It will NOT make your child SUCCESSFUL It can DESTROY your childâs FUTURE What Happens when you make your child PERFECT? 1. They stop trying new things â because they cannot be perfect at something new We complain that they are DEMOTIVATED 2. They do things at the last minute â because they want an excuse for being imperfect We complain that they are LAZY 3. They canât make friends â because they donât find anyone perfect We complain that they are UNFRIENDLY 4. They canât take feedback â because it makes them feel imperfect We complain that they are SENSITIVE 5. They struggle to adjust â because they expect everything to be perfect We complain that they are PAMPERED AND SPOILT 6. They get give up easily â because they cannot take the anxiety of making mistakes We complain that they are NOT HARDWORKING 7. They lie and cheat â because they need to be perfect at all costs We complain that they are BAD. STOP trying to make your child PERFECT Fill them with the COURAGE to make MISTAKES and learn from their mistakes And tell them that making mistakes does not make them BAD or UNLOVABLE. That will make them TRY MORE TRY HARDER TRY AGAIN And ultimately SUCCEED Do you want your child to be SUCCESSFUL? Type YES and throw perfection out of your life Share this so that all those people who scold you when YOUR CHILD IS NOT PERFECT see it and understand that YOU ARE MAKING YOUR CHILD SUCCESSFUL . Donât damage your childâs growing brain because of wrong beliefs. Start PARENTING with NEUROSCIENCE. If you are the parent of a child between 0 to 7 years â learn parenting with neuroscience by subscribing to my Parenting Blueprint course. DM me if you want to know more. #parenting #perfectionism #fearoffailure #procrastination
Are you always worried about your child?
Then you need to know this. When you WORRY You get STRESSED When you get STRESSED Your child gets STRESSED When your child gets STRESSED They do things that get you STRESSED. Because the STRESS Is DAMAGING THEiR BRAIN Yes! For example - You are worried that your child is NOT EATING So, you are stressed. Because you are stressed your child is stressed too. Because your child is stressed, their brain is nit working well and they are not hungry. Because your child is not hungry - they are not eating. And because they are not eating â you are getting even more stressed. It is the same with LEARNING. You are stressed because your child is not learning. Your child is not learning because you are stressed. It is the same with TANTRUMS You are stressed because your child is throwing tantrums. Your child is throwing tantrums because you are stressed. BUT HOW CAN YOU STOP BEING WORRIED AND STRESSED? By understanding exactly what your child needs and how to give it to them. 1. How to feed them so that they eat 2. How to teach them so that they learn 3. How to discipline them so that they listen. And the answers lie in NEUROSCIENCE. With neuroscience you can understand your childâs growing brain and body. You can understand what their growing brains and bodies need. And how to deliver what they need effectively without causing any damage. PARENTING WITH NEUROSCIENCE is the only way to STRESS FREE PARENTING And STRESS-FREE PARENTING is the only way to FANTASTIC BRAIN BUILDING. Do you want to learn PARENTING WITH NEUROSCIENCE? Send me a message saying PB. And I will send you the link to subscribe to my PARENTING WITH NEUROSCIENCE course. Share this with all those who criticize you when you RELAX. They should know that STRESS is not good for your child and STOP getting you STRESSED. Type OK and follow me for more. #parenting #stress #neuroscience
What do you do when your child DEMANDS?
Do you (a) Buy what they ask? (b) Explain and argue? (c) Say âI donât have moneyâ (d) Say âWe canât afford itâ Does this result in tears, tantrums and more demands? Then STOP And follow my 4D formula for DEALING WITH DEMANDS The 1st D is DREAM â When children ask for something â what they really want is connection. Listen to them. Appreciate the item they want. Dream with them about how much fun it would be to have it. Imagine with them what else can be used in its place. The 2nd D is DEESCALATE The easiest way to deescalate is to empathize. I know you feel sad that we canât buy it. The 3rd D is DESIRE Understand that it is normal to desire things and help them to plan to fulfill their desires Give them some money and allow them to buy something with it. Help them to make a plan to save up for it Encourage creating a wish list that they can choose from on their birthday. Show them how to get the best deal. The 4th D is DISCUSS Talk about what you are going to buy before you leave the house. Show them how to pick out things within your budget. Have an ongoing conversation about your family values of eating healthy, focusing on sustainability etc. so that they make the right buying decisions. Save this now to use later. Share this with THOSE WHO BUY YOUR CHILD THINGS AND THEN CALL THEM SPOILT Follow me for more PARENTING FORMULAS
Excessive screen time affects brain development.
But how can you tell if your child is getting too much screen time? Look out for these 3 signs. These are the first signs that appear before screen time begins to impact brain development. When these signs appear â take urgent action and reduce your childâs screen time. Sign 1 â Your child is sleepy during the day One of the most important things a child needs for brain development is enough SLEEP If your child is sleepy during the day â they are probably not sleeping enough during the night. If this is due to use of devices then reduce Device use urgently Sign 2 â Your child is unhappy and cranky when they are not on the mobile or TV This shows that your child is unable to tolerate the slow pace and boredom of the real world and constantly needs entertainment. This is an obstacle to brain development because â the brain grows when new neural connections are strengthened by repetition. When children get used to constant entertainment, they cannot endure the boredom of repetition. The lack of repetition can affect brain growth Sign 3 â Your child is not able to focus Focus is essential for brain development because it opens the gates of the brain and helps the brain to learn faster. When a child is not able to focus, their learning is slow, incomplete and inaccurate. This results in the child losing interest in learning because it is too difficult. Are you seeing these signs in your child? Type NO MORE and reduce your childâs screen time right now Do not allow excessive screen time to affect your childâs brain development. Share this with others who do not know of these danger signs and allow their children screen time even when these signs are visible Follow me for more.
âThere are 5 kinds of PLAY that make your baby a QUICK LEARNER
1. Physical play Your child will become a QUICK LEARNER when they move around and explore. Encourage - running, jumping, climbing and crawling 2. Object play Your child will become a QUICK LEARNER when they are good at problem solving. Encourage your child to play with objects like building blocks, kitchen sets, cars etc. Playing with objects requires constant problem solving. and will make your child good at problem solving. 3. Water play Your child will become a QUICK LEARNER when they can focus Encourage your child to play with water - because children can stay focused without getting distracted for hours when they are playing with water. Playing with water will increase their attention span and build their focus. 4. Turn taking play Your child will become a QUICK LEARNER when they can remember. Encourage your child to play games where they have to wait for their turn because it will mean that they will have to remember what they have to do until their turn comes. This will improve their memory 5. Pretend play Your child will become a QUICK LEARNER when they can imagine. Encourage your child to imagine that a cup is a car and so on during pretend play. This will help your child to imagine that the letters c-a-t stand for a furry animal that mews (a cat) and help them to learn how to read. If you feel your child is not interested in learning â donât teach them more - just give them a chance to play. Play is extremely important for learning because it builds the brain and makes learning easier and faster This is neuroscience in action Share this - so that those who scold your child for playing â see this and realize how wrong they are and change themselves. Start PARENTING with NEUROSCIENCE if you are committed to BRAIN BUILDING. That is what will make your child a QUICK LEARNER Send me a DM saying âPBâ if you want the payment link to subscribe to my parenting with neuroscience course called the âTHE PARENTING BLUEPRINT FOR THE FIRST 7 YEARSâ Follow me to learn Parenting with Neuroscience #parenting #neuroscience #earlylearning
Are you struggling with discipline?
If your answer is YES â you could be making these 3 mistakes. Mistake 1 â Giving SILENT TREATMENT instead of shouting Silent treatment results in - 1. Your child purposely misbehaving to make you shout 2. Your child making the same mistake again because you have not taught them how to correct their mistake Mistake 2 â Giving REWARDS instead of punishment Giving rewards results in â 1. Your child losing the motivation to do anything without a reward. This means you have to shout more. 2. Your child throwing more tantrums and demanding more things Mistake 3 â Giving CONSEQUENCES instead of punishment If you decide the consequences â it is a punishment. Giving consequences results in â 1. Your child lying to get what they want 2. Your child fighting with you to get what you have taken away. QUICK FIX discipline techniques only result in more indiscipline. So how do you discipline your child? 1. Understand why your child made the mistake 2. Teach them how to avoid making the mistake next time 3. Show them how to fix what has gone wrong this time. Focus on BRAIN BUILDING instead of BEHAVIOUR CHANGE. Start PARENTING WITH NEUROSCIENCE Send me a DM if you want to subscribe to my Parenting Blueprint Course. Share this with those who are using these discipline techniques and then complaining that your child is stubborn. Follow me to learn parenting with neuroscience. #parenting #tantrums #rewards #consequences
Are you enjoying parenting?
Or are you exhausted and just waiting for your child to grow up? Do you keep wondering - âWhen will my child start eating properly?â âWhen will my child start listening to me?â âWhen will my child learn?â Then you need to start PARENTING with NEUROSCIENCE. Your child has an incomplete brain. Some parts of their brain are still under construction. When your parenting techniques are not working â understand that you are using roads that are still under construction. That is why you are struggling so much and getting so exhausted. Parenting with neuroscience introduces you to other roads â on which you can travel faster. This makes your journey enjoyable instead of exhausting If you think you deserve to enjoy the parenting journey â start parenting with neuroscience. Send me a message with PB written in it and I will share the details of my âParenting with Neuroscienceâ course. Share this with other exhausted parents and do your bit to make parenting more fun for everyone. Follow me for more.
âNo parent ever wants their child to get dehydrated.
In fact, the amazing parent that you are â you are surely doing your best to prevent dehydration. But if you are following what other people are saying or doing without checking if it is the right thing to do, you may be making these 5 mistakes And causing dehydration while you are trying to prevent it. Mistake 1 â Giving your child juice or any sweetened drink to prevent dehydration. Sweetened drinks may cause dehydration instead of preventing it Plain water is the best for your child Mistake 2 â Thinking your child is hydrated because they are swimming Swimming causes dehydration without thirst. Always ensure that your child drinks water before, during and after swimming. Always stay alert for dehydration induced cramps when your child is swimming. Mistake 3 â Thinking you are preventing dehydration by keeping your child in air conditioned spaces Dehydration is extremely common when children stay in A/C environments for a long periods. Insist that your child drinks water even if they are not thirsty. In fact, the lack of thirst is a sign of dehydration Mistake 4 â Thinking your child is disobedient when they donât listen to you in the heat. Confusion, irritability and tantrums can be due to dehydration. If you are at an event where it is hot, do not dress your child up in heavy clothes and jewellery. Keep a close watch on them and periodically offer water. Mistake 5 â Taking children out to the beach as soon as you reach your holiday destination If your child is not used to the heat they can get dehydrated very quickly in a hot place. Take a day or two to adjust to the heat and slowly increase the period of exposure to heat. Are you making these mistakes? Type WATER and stop now!! Thousands of parents are making these mistakes. Share this on your stories with #summer to warn them Follow me for more. #parenting #summer #vacation #dehydration |
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